Dear new PhD students:
It’s the end of September, and you’ve been in the thick of things for about a month now. Chances are, the graduate school experience is feeling pretty intense at this point. You’ve got homework. Research. Umpteen seminars and discussions. Maybe teaching on top of that. Some of you are thriving on the chaos, and some of you are worried you’re about to drown.
It’s right about this time that the senior PhD students in my department traditionally host a grad-to-grad advice lunch. I missed it this year, which is probably better for everyone. I am cranky and bitter and bad at small talk.
However, I do have one piece of non-cranky advice that I’d like to share with you, which is the following:
Do what you love.
Find the things in grad school that make you happy, and do them. Pursue your interests. Follow your curiosity.
You’re going to hear a lot of advice on what you “need” to do to be successful in academia. Ignore it. Or maybe don’t ignore it completely, but put it away in a mental filing cabinet, to be reviewed only periodically.
Because if you spend your time in graduate school worrying about how many papers you’ve written, or how many potential reference-letter-writers you’ve cultivated, or how many lines you have on your CV, you’re going to be miserable.
The best way to write papers is to care enough about your results that you want to tell everyone about them.
The best way to develop collaborations is have ideas you think are cool and skills you want to share.
If you’re working on something you love, the rest will follow. It might not necessarily follow easily—you might, like me, dislike writing in general, or it just might not be your strong suit. Maybe presenting at conferences will require getting over a fear of public speaking, or maybe your interests are so far-flung that they’ll take a little wrangling to shape into a coherent thesis. But writing and public speaking are skills that can be learned. They’re steps to an end goal (sharing your cool research with others), not the goal itself.
Somewhere along the line, you might discover that the things you love doing are not the things that academia thinks you should love doing. That’s OK. That’s something you need to know about yourself.
Do what you love.
Because if you don’t, you’ll end up like me: cranky and bitter and not totally sure why you’re still here.
All the best,